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Manifesting Trevi

Once upon a time ago, I was experiencing struggles in my business and financially. These struggles ate deep into me, and what resulted, was months of depression. During this phase, I couldn’t do much – I couldn’t wake up in the morning, I sometimes did not even want to wash up or eat. I would just lie in bed.

One day, I got bored lying in bed, and I decided to do something that would bring me even the slightest joy – and I started watching movies. My husband and I had lots of movies saved on our computer, and I would just watch reruns for days. That gave me a spark of hope that things were not as dark as they seemed.

It was at the time that I attracted The Secret into my life. I was introduced to the Law of Attraction and attended a session with a Law of Attraction coach. There, I learnt the art of scripting.

Scripting is basically writing out the story you want to live. The aim of scripting, is to introduce you to the life you desire, as you write down that ideal lifestyle. The more you are able to know this lifestyle you desire, the more you’d be able to tap and step into it.

In my ideal life scripting, I wrote about many things. I wanted to make RM100,000 a year (about $25,000). I wanted to be recognised in my industry, and so, I wrote that people would applaud me. I wanted to travel the world.

Of all the things that I scripted, travel was the most enjoyable story. I wrote about how I was standing in front of the Trevi Fountain in Rome – for me, that was so easy to visualise (another Law of Attraction Technique). I saw myself in front of the iconic fountain, I could see the. fountain in clear detail – the rocks, the carvings on it, the water flowing down. I heard the birds chirping around me, and the people talking. I felt the gold coin in my right hand, I could feel myself smiling excitedly as I flung the gold coin into the fountain and made a wish.

I saw this entire experience in such clarity.

2 weeks later, my husband received news that his company was sending him to London for a Job Fair, and…guess what? My husband wanted me to come with him!

I remembered thinking, that I’d be going to London – but what’s happening with my dream trip to Rome? But I said nothing. I just watched as it beautifully unravelled for me. I did not want to ask my husband for extra money so I could travel to Rome – I was not making much, and I did not want to trouble anyone else. But what unfolded, was miraculous.

A week before the trip, my husband asked me if I wanted to travel to Europe. I told him I was worried about the cost. We did the budgeting, and realised that it would cost us close to RM8000 to make this trip. “Let’s do it” he said. “It’s worth it”

And so that’s how it happened – I went to Rome! I saw the Trevi, in her glamorous beauty. And I also went to 14 other countries. This trip expanded me so much. Not only was I so grateful that I was able to travel so extensively, seeing the most beautiful places, meeting great friends – I was witnessing first hand how beautifully the Law of Attraction had worked for me.

My husband left for home as I continued my tour to Europe. And the day he got back, he called me and told me that he had received a RM10,000 bonus from his company for his performance. That amount covered the trip, with more to spare. I was almost in tears!

Everything happened so beautifully for me. I felt so honoured to witness such goodness, such ease. It’s like Life coordinated everything so perfectly so I could have what I wanted, and more.

When I returned home after the tour, I got a job offer that paid me RM96,000 a year, very close to my asking income of RM10,000 – and 6 months later, I was promoted and received a salary increment, bringing my income to RM105,000, more than what I had asked for. Once, when I was organising an event for the high performers at work, my boss thought that I had done a great job, and stopped the ceremony, to ask everyone to applaud me.

When I looked back at the year that was, the feeling that runs through me is extreme gratitude. Everything that I had scripted, became a reality for me. Some faster than others – but I received everything that I had wanted, and then some.

So, here’s what I’d learnt about manifesting from this entire experience

We manifest better when there’s less resistance – I manifested my trip to Rome within 2 weeks of my ask, because I didn’t resist it. I had issues visualising that I’d be earning RM100,000 a year, but I had zero resistance visualising my trip to see the Trevi. Less resistance gets us there faster
Visualisation helps get us there faster – because when we can see in our mind, how we’re living in our desired life, our brain sees this as a potential reality. The brain cannot tell the difference between a real and an imagined experience. The more often we do this, the brain accepts this as a reality, and through the Reticular Activating System, the brain finds ways to make this reality in the mind, become a reality in our physical life.
We manifest best from a state of calm – when I came back from my trip to Europe, I was in the calmest state of being. I had so much fun, and I’d spend everyday reliving that fun. And every night, I slept more peacefully. Happiness does that to us – it brings us calm. And this calm allowed me to be open to receiving everything else on that list I scripted.
I learnt, most importantly, that what I want can be mine. I can create the reality I want to live in by focusing more of my energy towards those things that can make me happy, instead of evidence in my current life, of what’s not working quite well.

I could not manifest from a depressed state of being, and when I got myself out of this darkness, I opened myself to receiving abundance, and abundance came in.

Often, we unintentionally and unknowingly block the flow of abundance from reaching us, when we hold on to things that limit us. Letting go of these limits directly opens us up to the abundance we desire, and so much more

Hi, I’m Sharm Siva, and I’m a Receiving Mindset Coach. It is my greatest passion to show people how to open themselves up to receiving, through transformative mindset work. I use a blend of powerful and proven concepts from the worlds of psychology, neuroscience and the Law of Attraction to help you experience receiving more of what you want and less of what you don’t want in a more empowering way. Come join me in my Facebook group, where we have constant reminders, discussions and celebrations around the topic of receiving, and open yourself up to receiving now! Visit me at sharmsiva.com

Have You Met Your Millionaire Self?

The reason why you’re not yet living the life and money story you desire, is because you’ve not yet become the person who can enjoy or understand the lifestyle that you’re desiring. Does this make sense?

When I just started working decades ago, I rarely shopped for things, and one of those things, were handbags. I wouldn’t get another handbag until the one I was using broke or became damaged. And I would always only go to the discounted section and get bags that were on a 70% discount.

One day, my husband came home and shared an experience that totally expanded me forever. He asked me if I had heard of Hermes, the brand – and at that time, I hadn’t. He told me that his colleague was parading a handbag she had recently purchased from Hermes, and my husband asked me to guess how much that bag costs.

At the time, the most expensive handbag that I had ever owned, was RM100 (about $25), and so I guessed higher – RM 200? No. RM 500? No. RM 1000? No.

I was honestly shocked! How much could a bag possibly cost?

My husband told me that the bag was RM 25,000 (about $6000) – and I was stunned! Firstly, my mind didn’t know that bags could cost so much, and secondly, my mind couldn’t fathom who would spend so much for a bag.

I was definitely expanded that day. Which was a brilliant thing – because I took a step closer to becoming the person who can understand and appreciate living a lifestyle that could afford me a $6000 handbag.

You cannot get what you don’t understand – this is the Law of Attraction.

You cannot become a millionaire, and live a millionaire life, unless and until you can understand what being a millionaire feels like. Some feelings must be invoked from you, for you to start gravitating towards the thing that you want.

So, if you’re right now living a life where you’re not yet living your desires, then it’s because you don’t quite understand how you would feel upon receiving those desires.

How would it be, really, to have a million dollars? Really think about it. How does Millionaire You look like? Where does she shop? What work does he do? Are they still working? What kinds of shoes do they wear? What house are they living in? What car do they drive?

Take some time to picture your Millionaire Self living that Millionaire Life.

And FEEL what your Millionaire Self is feeling as they go about living their daily life. When you can see this, you can step into this Millionaire version of yourself more often, and eventually, this desire will become a reality.

Try this:

1. Imagine your Millionaire Self and how they live

2. Spend 5 minutes before bedtime every night picturing this. Picture living this Millionaire Life

3. Really FEEL what your Millionaire Self would feel as they go about their day – is this excitement? Joy? Peace?

Remember, that your Millionaire Self needs to first exist in your mind before they can become a physical reality.

Meet your Millionaire Self, and enjoy spending time with and as them. Every time you do that, you’re stepping into a new reality, and you’re opening yourself up to new possibilities – and soon, you’ll receive this lifestyle and become that version of yourself

How Decluttering Opens Your Channels Of Receiving

How you do something, is how you do everything

I can’t quite remember exactly when or where I first heard this, but it definitely hit home. As a money mindset transformationalist, I have met many people who tell me that they’re struggling with money.

Some used to have a big income, and now, not anymore because of the pandemic. Some have businesses that are just not making money, or that have no clients now. Basically, the feeling they have when it comes to money, is “stuck”.

Usually, when I observe someone feeling stuck when it comes to money, I know that they are holding on to something within them, that is keeping them stuck (how you do something, is how you do everything)

This thing that is keeping them stuck could be an old anger that they’re still harbouring towards someone in their lives, that has not yet been resolved. It could be grief that they’re still holding on from some past pain. It could be fear because of something unpleasant they’ve experienced.

Many people cannot make the connection between how an emotional tightness within them impacts how they experience money in their lives. But there is a connection – because money feels you. When you hold on to some anger, for example, this anger consumes a big space within you, and the more you use up this space for anger and other emotional tightness to reside within you, the less space you have for the light things like joy, peace, and yes, abundance too.

So, to receive more abundance and money, some space within you needs to be cleared up.

I get my clients to do releasing work. Something they can do physically, that symbolises the release of this tightness within them.

One activity I often suggest, is the decluttering of their physical space. It could be an office, or a room in the house, or even a cupboard, or the car boot. Any space that is lived in, that feels messy, is the exact thing that needs some attention and clearing up.

You see, abundance and money are energy. And this energy cannot come to you if you’re somehow blocked within you.

Living in a space that is messy, or that makes you feel uncomfortable, can potentially become a money block. Clearing this space up will help you feel free generally, and this freeing feeling opens up your channels of receiving – it opens up what’s been keeping you stuck.

Try this 👇

1. Identify a physical space in your office or house that you are not entirely comfortable or happy with.

2. Select one area to declutter – starting small prevents the risk of overwhelm, so start clearing up one area, and then work your way to more areas or a bigger space.

3. Once you’ve cleared this space up, celebrate, by telling yourself that this is a very good job done.

4. Also, affirm something empowering that signifies how this physical decluttering means that your channels of receiving are also cleared. You can say something like “As this space is now cleared, so will my channels of receiving – I now invite money to come into my life freely and easily”

5. Remember that any space you use for anger, fear, envy, regret, guilt or other forms of emotional tightness, means that there is less space for joy, peace, abundance and money.

6. When you’re aware of this, you will start paying more attention to your feelings, and focus more on feelings that can bring money to you, and not those who keeps it away.